That's why I always make sure I have coffee Monday mornings so that I can be pumped and ready to go, because nothing would suck more than to be falling asleep on your tutees. I also go visit Mom and Pop's by Diffenbaugh, or when I'm lucky, La Lola Loca at Landis when they're there, because unfortunately, they're like Haley's Comet.
So far, I've been extremely lucky with my tutees. Even the quieter ones have been open towards me and have told me what their concerns are, their strengths, weaknesses, and which sentences are troubling them the most in their essays. A couple of weeks ago, I had a tutee who was pretty much the ideal in the Minimalist Tutoring article in Murphy's Handbook. This guy would ask me all of the question, show his concerns point-blank, and would join me in reading his sentences out loud so that there wouldn't be error. He knew of his bad habits with the experience of his past research papers and asked me to point out any if I had seen them, and most times, he would catch them as I kept reading. Out of all of the people I've helped tutored, this guy was pretty memorable and was with the hour long session because even I learned some interesting facts on his paper that I applied in a future (by then) paper myself, as well as his research skills and information.
I've always pictured tutoring to be like this. You meet people and you get something in return. Sometimes, it won't be tiny tidbits like how the SCLC (Southern Christian Leadership Conference) protested Delta Airlines for not having diverse stewardesses, or how Belgians base their romantic attachments on a complete open-book mentality and how secrets are taboo to them. Sometimes you get something else deep down inside when you tutor people, especially those who seek the help they need and give you direction on where to go, these guys give you a deep sense of satisfaction and a need to keep on doing this, because this is the right thing to do.
And because of that, I lose all sense of grumpiness for the rest of the day.
First of all, you do not seem like Grumpy Cat, although being a cat would be pretty awesome. It's so nice to read how much you are enjoying your experience peer tutoring. It seems like you are genuinely enjoying it, which I think we all are, but it's refreshing to read your thoughts so explicitly laid out and so well, happy. I have to agree. I look forward to Thursday afternoons when I get to spend a small but significant hour and a half period doing my best to help others with their words. And I am pretty passionate about words.
ReplyDeleteI can completely relate to having coffee at all times during my tutoring sessions. I don't think I've ever entered into a classroom let alone a session without coffee, it helps me to focus so much better when reading/processing a student's work. Also, we tutor around the same time in William Johnston so I have been around to actually see you tutoring and can attest to the fact that there is no Grumpy Cat in sight! It seems like you're doing such a great job and I'm glad you're really enjoying it. I hope you get to encounter more awesome students like the one you described in the future.
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